"They Don't Need Me": Abroad-based Lady Cuts Off Her Siblings After Spending Millions on Them
- A Nigerian lady who has been spending money to take care of her siblings at home has cut them off
- The lady who lives abroad shared the experiences she had with her brother and her sister, who are in Nigeria
- She said that after spending money to take care of their needs, she realised that they did not need her to survive
A Nigerian lady has shared the reason why she no longer takes care of her brother and her sister.
The lady who is living abroad said she has successfully cut off her siblings after her relocation.
Source: TikTok
In a video she posted, @itscelestialbeing said she realised that her siblings no longer need her to survive.
According to her, in May 2025, her brother was arrested by security agencies after he bought a stolen phone.
She spent N4 million to get her brother out of detention. But after that, her brother did not appreciate it; instead, he insulted her.
Also, she has given her sister N800,000 to learn a skill, but the young lady ended up not learning the skill.
At some points, the abroad-based lady said she decided to cut off her siblings because they were scamming her.
However, she said she is still taking care of her mother and father.
Source: TikTok
Watch the video below:
Reactions as lady shares what her siblings did to her
@DrNasNuggets said:
"My mum passed away during my first year at university, and my dad died while I was doing my PhD. Sadly, my mum never got to enjoy the fruits of her hard work, and my dad only did for a short time. After losing them, I made a vow to support my siblings during their financial struggles. However, I soon realized that constantly sending money only made them less likely to reach their full potential. So, I encouraged those interested in learning a trade to do so, and they were settled. For those who wanted to continue their studies, I supported them—but with strict boundaries, making it clear that I was not their “Mugu Money Spender (MMS).”
@Base Babe said:
"I've recently cut my mum off for continuously blame me and my other siblings for no longer helping our youngest brother who's 40yrs old!!, even though we've done so much it's just never enough...Our eldest brother gave him 3 bedroom house, my other brother gave him a car. I got tired of sending endless money that he was supposed to start businesses with...he was in the US for 8yrs, self-deported himself and living off the rest of us....I just got fed up off my mum blame me for a 40-year-old man's life decisions."
Lady appreciates brother who paid her fees
Earlier, Legit.ng reported that a Nigerian lady is filled with joy that she has achieved her dream of becoming a masters degree holder.
The lady said her dream would not have come to pass if it were not for her elder brother, who paid her fees.
According to her, her brother paid for her school fees in the UK until she graduated with a masters degree.
Source: Legit.ng
