Lady Posts Unexpected Messages Ex-boyfriend Sent to Her on WhatsApp: "What Did I Put Myself Into?"
- A Nigerian lady has shared the WhatsApp messages that she received from her ex-boyfriend after she ended their relationship
- According to the lady, he has been finding it difficult to 'accept rejection' and keeps sending her messages with different phone numbers
- Commenting on the story, a Nigerian relationship expert Peace Onwuegbu advised the lady to be safety-conscious
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A Nigerian lady's post about her ex-boyfriend's behaviour after she ended their relationship has garnered reactions online.
The lady claimed that her ex-boyfriend struggled to accept her decision and resorted to sending her messages from different phone numbers.
Source: TikTok
Lady posts messages from ex-boyfriend
The lady, identified by the TikTok handle @just_nini842, shared a series of messages she received from her ex-boyfriend online.
She captioned the post:
"POV: It's too difficult for a man to accept rejection. Now he's using different numbers to disturb you. Make una try dey post una rubbish exes cause wetin I don put myself into."
In the messages, the man had expressed his views on relationships, stating that women should be submisssive and loyal to their partners.
He believes that a woman's role is to respect and submit to her man, while the man's role is to provide leadership, protection, and support.
Speaking further, he criticised some modern men for having low self-esteem and worshiping women, arguing that this prevents them from guiding women on how to be good partners.
Source: TikTok
He emphasised the importance of respect in a relationship, suggesting that a man's love for his partner should be measured by the respect and loyalty she shows him.
In his words:
"You call being nonchalant and disrespectful or egoistic to your partner as being woke. If you don't trust the leadership of your man enough to be loyal to him and bow to his logical orders, then you shouldn't be with him in the first place. Except he is a simp with low self-esteem and lacks leadership abilities, so he has to worship you and tolerate your disrespect. Then he becomes a sweet man, a finished man. LOL, that is what you like.
"Where I'm from, in a relationship, the woman is submisssive. The more loyal she is, the bigger the love she receives, both in cash and kind. I don't have to impress you before you submit to me as a man. If you love me truly, loyalty follows. That covers respect, submission, and honesty. That is your currency to buy my heart, while my currency to buy yours is leadership, protection, and support afterwards, not before. You, after you, ma, that's the right way to find love.
"Your generation twisted it because your men are simps with low self-esteem, and so they worship you girls and fail to show you how to become a good wife. You can have a say always in your relationship while being submisssive and loyal to your man. A real man will always pick respect over love because he wants to measure the level of love to render in return according to the level of respect and loyalty being fed to him.
"What are we outing for when you can't come here to properly take care of me and turn my house to a home? You are young; obviously, more reason why you don't have to understand a man like me. To know me requires patience, presence. Sorry, not dates. Play your part and wait for me to play mine afterwards. I don't need to impress you first. I can only choose to start classy if need be, but in absence of that, I don't need to impress a woman for her to love me in return.
"That is for a man who doesn't know his worth and purpose. I can be intentional and romantic, but trying to impress you first before you love me now, baby. That comes genuinely and when it is solid enough, it shows from your actions towards me, which is what I will read and analyze from to know if she loves me or not. There, then can there be a need to impress her afterwards according to the level of love, loyalty, submission being projected to me by her initially."
Commenting on the story, a Nigerian relationship expert Peace Onwuegbu advised the lady to be safety-conscious.
"She should be very careful at this time because some people become dangerous when they get rejected and can't move on. She should try to avoid him completely," she said.
Reactions as lady shares messages from ex-boyfriend
TikTok users stormed the comments section to react to the trending post.
@ohgaycci said:
"If he wants leadership so bad he should build a company or run for election."
@Chinenyeokeke said:
"Na lecturer he be? cause why the long note? Just reply him with “k” make everywhere burst."
@jenny Ricky said:
"He said he doesn’t need to impress you but you need to submit to him an his logical."
@EVERYTHING_ONYI said:
"Aiii. Twitter has damaged another one. I don hear submission like 72 times. Ndi Alpha and Omega."
@AsiMystique:
"I like it when a man shows me this part of him in talking stage. It makes it easier for me to block or stop talking to him. Some of them will pretend till you get comfortable with them before showing the 90’s in them. E no go like go date him mama age mate. Werey."
See the post below:
Lady posts chat with ex-boyfriend
Meanwhile, Legit.ng previously reported that a Nigerian lady made public the messages she received on Instagram from her ex-boyfriend.
The man messaged her years after break up and confessed he was wrong to have treated her the way he did.
Source: Legit.ng
